( Our hike on Saturday . . . and how we ended up after arriving back home--we hiked like crazy people up and ran our little fanny's off down . . . and that is why I am so sore and happy and sleepy) When asked to give Newlyweds advice, mine is always this: If you find yourself in a bit of a disagreement late into the night, JUST GO TO BED. It will, I promise, be better in the morning. I got lots of the exact opposite advice when we first got married: Never, ever go to be angry. It turns out, at least for us, 99.99999% of the reason we are angry/frustrated/hurt at each other is because we are bone weary. We can't see straight. So if it's past 10pm when we start into a "discussion" as we like to call it in our house (which have been known to rattle the window pains), we just say, We will finish this in the morning. John goes to bed and I go into the study and cry for about ten minutes until he comes and finds me and pulls me off the couch ...