I've been thinking a lot about marriage lately. Some of it good, some of it not so good. It's interesting over the years to watch marriages around me either crumble or get stronger or some, just sort of plod along. I know, it sounds like I'm describing something animate and real when I talk about marriages and here's the deal, I think they are animate and real. They're like this living organism. If you talk to Brene Brown, she'd tell you that LOVE is a living organism and it needs food and water and light to survive. And of course, at the base of marriage is love right? But honestly twenty years in, there is a lot more things involved. It's like this crazy map of a million different emotions and memories and feelings and to be honest, it can get a lot messy. I remember my parents having a bit of a rough patch (for years on an off) and when one of my sisters suggested that my mom just divorce my dad and be done with it, my mom said, Oh, I cou...