My Chinese grandma name is Nai Nai. It means Milk Milk or Boob Boob (Henry likes that one). It’s my favorite name I’ve ever been called. Henry. My oldest. Our surprise baby who came four years before we planned. When we discovered he was coming, we made a total change of plans—Law school for John and a more creative English degree for me. I thought he’d slow us down or crimp our style, and in some ways, he might have, but mostly, he made us brave. He made us passionate about him and our little family unit. He taught us how to be self-less and patient (oh boy did we ever need that), and how beautiful and wonderful the world was. We almost lost him when he was two and a half. I heard his heart stop beating and a hundred doctors rushed in, pushing us out of the room, yelling words no parents want to hear. But he’s a fierce little fighter and was running around, up to his wild mischief before I recovered let along he recovered. Again an...